Between Christmas and New Year’s: Letting Myself Be Still

There’s this quiet stretch between Christmas and New Year’s where time feels a little unreal. The big buildup is over. The pressure drops. And suddenly, my body notices everything it’s been holding.

I usually feel it in my feet first. Then my back. Then just… everywhere.

By the time Christmas passes, I’m often more tired than I realized. Not just physically, but in that deeper way that comes from weeks of pushing through - schedules, travel, emotions, expectations, noise. Even the good stuff takes something out of you.

So when I feel the urge to stay in bed more during this week, I don’t fight it like I used to.

I let it happen.

This week hits differently

Between Christmas and New Year’s, the usual structure loosens. Work slows. The calendar isn’t as demanding. And without all that external momentum, the body finally gets a chance to speak up.

That’s when I notice:

  • How heavy my legs feel

  • How stiff my back is

  • How tired I am in a way sleep alone hasn’t fixed

It’s not dramatic. It’s just honest.

About “bed rotting”

I know people joke about bed rotting, and sometimes it gets framed as being lazy or checked out. But for me, this week isn’t about giving up - it’s about low demand.

It’s about:

  • Staying in bed longer than usual

  • Letting the day start slowly, if it starts at all

  • Not forcing myself to be productive

  • Letting rest be the point

I don’t mean scrolling endlessly or numbing out. I mean letting my body stop bracing for what’s next.

What actually helps this kind of rest feel good

Letting go of expectations

This week doesn’t need to accomplish anything. It doesn’t need to set intentions or kick off a better version of myself.

When I stop expecting something meaningful to come out of it, the rest feels deeper - like my body finally believes it’s allowed to stand down.

Making rest physically comfortable

Lying in bed is one thing. Being comfortable in bed is another. 

One small thing that helps me settle more fully into rest is using a simple heating pad — nothing fancy, just steady warmth that helps my body soften instead of staying braced.

I’ve learned that small adjustments matter:

  • Propping up sore feet or legs

  • Using warmth when my body feels tight

  • Shifting pillows instead of just tolerating discomfort

  • Drinking water even when I’m doing nothing

Comfort helps rest feel restorative instead of restless.

Letting the days blur

One of the best parts of this week is that it doesn’t demand sharp edges. Meals can be simple. Sleep can come and go. Time doesn’t need to be tracked.

When I stop trying to manage the day, my body seems to settle on its own.

Rest isn’t avoidance

There’s a difference between avoiding life and recovering from it.

Recovery is quieter. Less obvious. But afterward, something shifts:

  • My muscles feel less guarded

  • My breathing feels easier

  • My thoughts aren’t as tight

That doesn’t happen by accident. That’s what happens when the nervous system finally gets a break.

Closing out the year gently

I don’t think this in-between week is a failure of momentum. I think it’s a pause — a natural one.

I don’t need to fix it.
I don’t need to explain it.
And I don’t need to make it productive.

Sometimes staying in bed a little longer is exactly what lets the year end properly.  It is what it is, and sometimes that's enough.


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